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We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
National Competition on Worries!
I'll introduce today's guests.
Powerful vocalist, Kim Tae Woo.
Hello. Nice to see you all.
(Kim Tae Woo)
Long time no see, Tae Woo.
She's the icon of beauty.
- Kim Jung Min. - Hello.
Hello.
He's the musician with bubbly charms. Henry.
(Henry)
I'm good
(I'm excited for today.)
Jung in is famous.
- For her body. - All girls want her body.
Many people ask me how I work out.
- So I'll teach you a move. - Great.
(I want to try it too.)
People who have a big belly can't do this move at first.
- You can't hold your legs. - But if you swing back and forth...
- She would be lonely alone. - I love it.
Let's try it.
Lie down like this. And hold your legs.
Then keep swinging back and forth.
- Like that. - That's not difficult at all.
- Can it really work your abs? - Right.
- It works your abs. - You look like you're bad at it.
Right.
It's hard to get up.
- She's better than you. - But...
- From here... - She is...
She is more stable.
She's moving towards me.
You should move to the right side.
(Tae Gyun got kicked out of the frame.)
She's moving towards me.
- This is how you do it, right? - She keeps moving towards me.
Let's move here and start over.
- Let's start over. - How do I do it?
- How do you do it? - At first,
your body will go up only slightly.
Then you try to go up higher...
so that eventually you will be able to sit up.
- Really? - Yes.
But she did it on the first try.
- I... - She sat up on the first try.
That's a wrong way to do it.
- You relied on rebound. - You can't rely on rebound.
You have to go down and get up right away.
You are supposed to get back up right away.
Wait.
- Yeong Ja is better than you. - You can't do it.
Why does my back hurt so much?
Anyway, it's like that. You lie down, and...
- You don't rely on rebound. - You don't rely on rebound.
- You rely on your core strength. - Just use your core strength.
- Solely on your core strength. - Only your core strength.
- Okay. - Tighten your core.
- Come up. - Try using your core strength.
She can't get up.
- It's tough. - I can get up.
Like this.
(She struggles.)
Are you going to try it? Start.
(She effortlessly sits up.)
(Try me.)
(Good job, Yeong Ja.)
Henry's heart-shaped nostrils...
became a big hit last time.
- You showed them on Hello. - That...
- It happened on this show. - Right.
- It was on Hello. - Right.
- I revealed my nostrils here. - Show us one more time.
- Let's do it. - It's been upgraded.
- Is that right? - They were small hearts.
But now I can make hearts of two different sizes.
These are the normal small hearts. Now they get bigger.
(Get bigger, hearts!)
(Henry's heart nostrils are magically charming.)
- That's cute. - How can he do that?
- Your new song "I'm Good" is out. - Yes.
My new song is out.
I'm good
Can I sing it first?
(Sing it for us.)
("I'm Good" by Henry)
(He's into it.)
(Everyone's indulging in Henry's charms.)
Thank you.
Tae Woo, your new song is out as well, isn't it?
It came out just today.
It's very hot.
(We have to hear it.)
("Following" by Kim Tae Woo)
(He's an amazing singer as always.)
(His cool voice will cool us down on this hot summer.)
(This is Hello concert.)
(He's good.)
(We always love Tae Woo's voice.)
We have three stories again. Let's check them out.
Please show us the keywords.
(The keywords are revealed.)
- "The Poor Family". - "The Poor Family".
"Watch out for Her".
"I Want to Be Happy".
This is "The Poor Family".
Hello. I am a woman in her 20s who is scared of going outside.
Is it because the world is a scary place? No.
Whenever I leave the house and come home,
something unbelievable happens in the house.
"Where did all my cosmetics go?"
"Mom, have you seen my cosmetics?"
"Oh, those. I threw them away."
"Where did my new clothes go? I bought it just last week."
"I threw it out as well."
Didn't she say she bought it last week?
"Why would you throw away something that's perfectly good?"
"I threw it away because it looked shabby."
My mom throws away all my things.
(Her mom throws away her things.)
- She even does this. - "Honey."
"You don't need this scrap of paper, do you? I'm throwing it away."
"No. That's precious to me."
"It's the letter my friend wrote to me for my birthday."
"Precious?"
"But you've already read it. I'm throwing it away."
(Ripping)
She ripped the letter in front of me and threw them away.
"Why do you throw away my things without my consent?"
"I can throw away whatever I want to throw away."
"Why do you complain so much?"
- She's upset. - "She might throw away too."
(Oh, dear.)
I'm so frustrated that I'm sending this letter.
Can you please fix my mom's bad habit?
(She asked help to change her mom.)
Usually, moms don't like throwing away things.
Right. Most moms are like that.
- Let's talk to her. - Yes.
Please come on out.
(Who's frustrated because of her mom who throws away everything?)
Hello.
(Shin Dong Hwa)
(Welcome)
Does your mom really throw away your things without your consent?
Yes. She throws my things away without telling me.
When I buy clothes to wear on a trip, she throws them away.
To get ready for a date, I opened the drawers of my dressing table.
- And there was nothing. - Did she throw away your makeups?
- Your dressing table. - She got rid of all my cosmetics.
I couldn't go on a date without wearing makeup,
so I cancelled the appointment.
Recently...
Do you have no confidence in your looks?
No.
Why did you have to cancel?
Were your makeups old?
They were fairly new.
There were a lot left too.
Without makeup...
I can't go outside without makeup.
- And... - Why would you say that?
(Be more confident!)
Recently, I bought a pair of sunglasses.
But when I looked for it, it was gone.
I couldn't stand it anymore,
and I decided to send a letter here.
The sunglasses made you decide it.
- Yes, they did. - By the way,
why did she throw them away?
She said...
she threw them away because it was dirty, unused, and shabby.
Perhaps your room is unbelievably untidy.
- Is your room untidy? - No. I make my room very tidy...
because I'm afraid she will throw away my things. I put accessories...
in a box, and she threw away the whole box.
Did she throw away the whole box?
- Yes. - Can't you hide them?
- She must find them. - She throws away so many things...
that the house never has the chance to get dirty.
You should put your things on a subway locker.
- Right. - That's one solution.
Perhaps she threw them away because they are useless.
No. I was given a 40-dollar gift certificate from the office.
Did she throw away the gift certificate?
- Yes. - Did she throw that away?
She doesn't like papers. She throws away everything.
She used it.
That's valuable though.
It sounds like she used it.
- She wouldn't throw it away. - She must've kept the sunglasses.
(I hope that's true.)
We had a computer at home.
- No way. - Did she throw it away?
She threw it away because it takes up space and collects dust.
- I think... - She threw away the computer.
I think she sells them on the secondhand market.
She must be doing this to earn some pocket money.
What was the thing she threw away that upset you the most?
It's the things that contain memories.
In middle school, I saved up...
and bought a 400-dollar bicycle.
You were in middle school, and it cost 400 dollars.
Yes. I saved up quite a lot.
When we moved, she threw it away because it took up space.
- Goodness. - When I was in middle school,
I got a big letter from my friend.
I kept it. But when my mom found it,
she said, "Why are you keeping this?" And she ripped it.
- So I told mom... - Did she really rip it?
she was being too harsh.
I asked her if she has no compassion,
and she said, "I don't have compassion."
- She was very proud of herself. - Usually, don't you rip a letter...
in front of a person when you're trying to hurt that person?
- Right. - Go away.
Why did she rip the letter in front of her?
- Why did she have to do that? - That's...
It's because she can't sell that at a secondhand market.
- She was upset. - She was upset.
"This has no value!"
She was upset.
Has she been throwing away your things for 20 years?
I think it started when I was in middle school.
- She's been throwing things away. - It's been 10 years.
Then this must be the reason.
Her mom started throwing things away when Dong Hwa began buying things.
She didn't throw away what she bought for Dong Hwa.
It seems that she threw away only what Dong Hwa bought.
- You sound like a detective. - She's sharp.
- You're sharp. - Yes.
I'm curious about why she throws away things.
- Let's talk to her mom. - Let's talk to her.
- Let's meet her mom. - Where is she?
- Hello. - Hello.
(Who's the mother who throws her daughter's things away?)
Ma'am, nobody can understand you.
Why do you throw away your daughter's things?
It's messy.
And they look useless.
I don't like her clothes.
- But they are hers. - But they are your daughter's.
- They are not my style. - They are not your style.
But you don't have to wear them.
That's why I throw her things away.
Why did you throw away her new sunglasses?
They were old-fashioned,
and they were not my style.
But it was your daughter's.
It looked like a toy.
Even a toy has its purpose.
Whether she wanted to play with it or wear it,
you should ask her before doing anything with it.
- Of course. She's the owner. - Why do you throw them away?
I don't think I have to bother asking for her consent...
before throwing things away.
I am in charge of what goes on in the house.
But your daughter is a grown-up too.
I'm the king in the house.
(She thinks she's the king.)
- Is she considered your underling? - Or...
- Yes. - Dong Hwa brought pictures...
of some of the good things her mom threw away.
Please show us.
- Was that it? - That's a nice one.
Was that it?
- Did she throw that away? - That's lovely.
That's in trend now.
- It's in trend. - It's my style.
- A necklace? - Why do you throw that away?
My boyfriend gave it to me because it's my star sign.
That's lovely.
He bought it for you because it's your star sign.
- Why would you throw that away? - Did she throw that away?
- Yes. - What else?
Those are the gifts I got from my friends.
I see sweaters.
- Sweaters. - She threw away the sweaters...
- and the headband. - Did she throw away everything?
- Did she throw away everything? - They were all new.
I didn't even get to wear them once.
But she threw them away.
Whether she got those from her friends or she bought them,
you knew they were new, right?
Right.
Didn't you think they might be precious to her?
- To your daughter? - I am more precious.
- Wait. - What is she talking about?
Ma'am.
The necklace is small,
and it's undoubtedly meaningful.
- Right. It's from her boyfriend. - It's from her boyfriend.
Why did you throw that away?
It's not stylish.
- What? It was good. - That's in trend.
- Ma'am, you... - Those sunglasses are in trend.
But don't they look like toys?
Your shirt looks like a toy.
- It looks like doll clothes. - It does.
(That felt so good.)
Ma'am.
- How about the computer? - Right now.
Honestly, I wanted to throw it away...
and replace it with a laptop.
- A laptop. - I thought someone who needs...
a computer would buy a laptop.
- That's why... - You weren't going to buy it.
You'd throw it away anyway.
That's why I threw it away. But I was wrong.
Nobody has bought a laptop yet.
- Didn't you think there might be... - It was gone when I came home.
- important files in the computer? - Right. Saved data.
It's not my concern.
Are you mad at your daughter?
- No. - No.
- No. - Perhaps you don't like her...
hanging out with her friends and with her boyfriend.
- That might be the reason. - That's not it.
Then what is the problem?
What's the problem?
Or perhaps...
Dong Hwa's grandmother... Perhaps did your mother...
do the same thing to you when you were growing up?
Did she throw away your things?
No, she didn't.
I'm the youngest daughter.
- I have three elder sisters. - Then...
were you always the most important one?
Right. I am 25 years younger than my eldest sister.
- Yes. - Her mother had her late.
- You were the boss. - My mother had me late.
- So I was cherished all my life. - They raised you with love.
Ma'am, then why did you...
- throw away the letters she got... - Right.
and her pictures?
- They are important. - She ripped them in front of her.
Those contain memories.
Letters are just papers.
She read them anyway.
They are essentially papers,
- but the meaning they contain... - They have meanings.
- is priceless. - Pictures...
- contain memories. - It's the same with letters.
She always hangs out with that friend anyway.
They can always take more pictures.
Why don't you rip all the pictures you took with your husband?
- No way. - Right.
Our memories are precious.
- What? - Their memories are precious.
- But... - Her memories are precious.
Are you saying your daughter's memories aren't precious?
- I'm curious. Those letters... - She's got many years to live.
- I am really curious. - I am so frustrated.
Perhaps she is exaggerating things...
- to make it more entertaining. - She wants to be funny.
- She wants to make it fun. - So is she exaggerating?
Or is she really like that? This is very important.
- It doesn't make sense. - Right. We can't understand her.
She's not exaggerating. She's just like that.
- Is she just as usual? - Is she like that at home too?
Yes. Whenever I complain to her, she doesn't care at all.
What's more frustrating is...
that while she throws away our things,
she doesn't throw away her things.
- What? - She throws away your things.
- She doesn't throw away her things. - She's just like my mom.
- My mom's just the same. - You...
- She is. - You think her things are useless.
In her room, there's a hanger on one side,
and there's a 15-layer chest.
And they are filled with her clothes.
- Her clothes. - 15 layers.
Mom and I wear the same size.
So Mom wears a lot of my clothes.
- If... - She won't throw those away.
she likes them, she won't throw them away.
Right. It's because she needs to wear them.
Even if they share their clothes,
it's better to follow the daughter's style.
The daughter can't dress in her mother's style.
People will mistake her for her mom.
Are there any clothes we are wearing...
that you want to throw away?
- Be honest. - I think my clothes are okay.
I think my clothes are okay.
The one beside my daughter.
- Me? You don't like this. - That's Tae Joon.
- Do you want to throw it away? - Yes.
(Even if Tae Joon is wearing it, it's like garbage in her eyes.)
Who's dressed the best?
- Dong Yeob. - Dong Yeob.
She likes that style.
I want to throw it away for no reason.
(So this is her style.)
He wants to throw away his shirt for no reason.
- What about Chan Woo's clothes? - Dong Yeob...
It looks like a shirt gangsters would wear.
That's very precise.
- She described it precisely. - She's precise.
(I want to throw it away.)
Why don't you throw away your clothes?
It's because I'm precious.
Ma'am.
You said you won't throw away your things...
because you are precious.
Then are you saying your daughter is not precious?
She is precious as my child.
But her things are dirty, shabby, and...
not my style. So I throw them away.
But they are your precious child's precious belongings.
But I can't think like that.
(She can't associate her child's things with her child.)
Does your dad say anything about this?
I bet he would be very upset.
He's given up.
- He's given up. - My elder brother...
is very rebellious.
He always fought about this with mom,
and he ended up moving out two years ago.
He must've been so upset to move out of the house.
Did she throw away his things too?
- Yes, she threw away his things. - Let's talk to her elder brother.
It's the one next to your mom, right?
Hello.
Like what your sister said,
did you move out of the house because of your mom?
- Yes. - No way.
- He looks gloom. - I couldn't stand...
Mom throwing away my things.
I didn't get any help from my parents.
I did part-time jobs and saved up to get a room.
I've been living alone for two years.
- That's serious. - When he was leaving,
wasn't she against the idea?
Didn't she stop you?
- "I won't throw away your things!" - Didn't she stop you?
She didn't stop me at all.
She told me to move out and do whatever I want.
She said it was what she wanted.
Isn't it like this?
Did she say that because you made her get frustrated?
Did she say it out of anger?
That's part of the reason why she said that.
She didn't call me for more than four months after I moved out.
(She didn't call her son.)
She must've been offended.
- She must've been worried. - So what happened?
- That's not easy to do. - I was upset too.
I didn't want to yield.
Since she didn't call,
- I didn't call her either. - You didn't want to yield.
- Then what happened? - In the end, I called and asked,
(He called her first.)
"How could you not call once when you son left the house?"
How long after did you call?
It was after a little over four months.
You are unbelievable, too.
What did your mother say?
"No news is good news. I didn't feel the need to call."
- She is unbelievable. - Didn't you worry about him?
It hurt my feelings.
Why live with someone you don't get along with?
He is an adult.
They say a monk should leave if he doesn't like the temple.
Would it be the same if you daughter leaves the house?
It would be the same. She is an adult.
I don't care if she leaves.
(My goodness.)
The incident with the sunglasses brought Dong Hwa here.
- That's right. - What made you...
leave the house?
Why did you leave the house?
Ever since I was young,
I grew up rummaging through the clothes collection bin.
You mean the ones at the apartments. She threw away your clothes often.
The clothes collection bin was your closet.
(It's the sad truth.)
- The clothes collection bin. - He had to find his clothes there.
It contained both his and other people's clothes.
Have you taken other clothes from the bin?
"This doesn't look bad."
"Why would anyone throw it away?" I had taken other clothes before.
What kind of clothes did she throw away?
One time, I bought a 200-dollar jean...
to wear on a date.
- That's expensive. - Did she throw that away?
I realized it was gone right before I left for a date.
- I asked her why she did that. - You should have looked for it.
The clothes collection bin was already empty.
Someone must have taken them.
Those jeans were worth 200 dollars.
People take new clothes in the clothes collection bin.
Some people in the neighborhood must know what is going on.
- They wait for her to come out. - The moment she comes out,
they run towards the clothes collection bin.
- "What nice clothes!" - I bet they do that.
Was there anything else she had thrown away?
When I was in the army, my girlfriend made me...
a photo album.
She sent it to me with a handwritten letter.
I had sent them home for safekeeping.
She threw them away because they were messy.
(She threw them away because they were messy.)
I couldn't tell my girlfriend then my mom had done that.
(Other people wouldn't understand.)
I heard that she even throws away food in the refrigerator.
After I drink,
I buy beverages for hangover...
- to drink the next day. - That's right.
They are gone when I wake up the next morning.
Why does she throw those away?
Those beverages are new.
- There is more. - Does she drink them?
Let's say I ordered fried chicken and ate a few pieces.
The rest is gone when I wake up the next morning.
She throws away food in the refrigerator very often.
Your friends give you cakes on your birthday.
- That's right. - You receive many cakes.
I had three cakes in the refrigerator.
She threw them away saying that they take up too much space.
(She threw them away.)
How strange!
There are three refrigerators at home.
However, all of them are empty.
She should throw away the refrigerators then.
I don't like it when it's messy inside the refrigerators.
When I open the refrigerators,
there need to be open space.
It needs to be that way.
Why did you even buy refrigerators?
- Cakes take up too much space. - Ma'am,
throw away the refrigerators.
It looks like she likes everything clean and tidy.
- She is mysophobic. - Does she seem that way?
What does the son think?
I do think she is mysophobic.
She has a big clean up every single day.
- She has a big clean up every day. - Every day?
- Yes. - Give us an example.
Does she move the sofa?
She does that.
When she has a big clean up,
she rearranges furniture.
- Does she rearrange furniture? - Does she do that often?
She does it in a way that suits her taste.
I move the furniture.
It doesn't matter if the piece has been moved one week ago.
She wants it back in its original location.
"I think it looks better here."
- "Move it back here." - She wants it moved.
She wants it moved to its original location.
The next week, she goes,
"I think it looks better there."
I follow her command and move the furniture here and there.
- You do that once a week. - The house is a moving company.
To be honest, I move the furniture because of the dust.
- She wants to wipe the dust. - Thus, rearrangement comes easy.
- I see. - Think about it.
You can pull out furniture, wipe the dust, and push it back.
He is the one using his muscles.
(It's his job.)
- This is crazy. - Thank goodness she has a son.
Your son no longer lives in the house.
- No. - Who moves the furniture now?
I haven't been able to rearrange it lately.
Don't you ask your husband?
He is too busy.
Ma'am, you are living...
with discomfort...
since your son is gone.
Wouldn't it be better to have a conversation...
and live in harmony?
I have thought about that,
but I don't want to change.
Do you know that you are selfish?
I do know that.
She always says,
"People are selfish. They put themselves first."
She always says that.
"People are selfish. They put themselves first."
How would you feel if your daughter lives selfishly?
That won't do.
- Why not? - It's a strange reasoning.
- Why not? - Why can't she live selfishly...
- like you? - Why not?
I guess I am being inconsistent,
but life is full of inconsistencies.
What are you talking about?
This is what I can glean from her story.
She knows that she is selfish...
and has tried numerous times...
to fix her ways to no avail.
Since it wouldn't help to beat up on herself,
she decided to accept herself...
and live as she pleases.
However, she doesn't want her daughter to be that way.
- I had the same thought. - She knows it's bad.
I had the same thought. Is Dong Yeob right?
He is right in some parts.
Still, I don't want to change.
At first,
I thought she was very strange.
Seeing her so unyielding makes me think that she is cool.
She is cool.
- Don't say that. - "This is my territory."
"Get out if you don't want to listen."
(She is a cold-hearted boss in a movie.)
- That's what she is saying. - She is the boss.
Does she act tyrannically in any other way?
She likes accessories.
My boyfriend and I got promise rings.
- Promise rings. - Yes. My mom...
(Did her mom...)
(throw it away?)
My mom wears it.
(What does that mean?)
- My goodness. - It's your daughter's ring.
She isn't cool. She isn't cool.
- You thought she was cool. - I take it back.
She is the coolest.
I have a ring...
that goes well with her promise ring.
That's why I wear it.
Unless you change,
this problem will go on forever.
My mother and I still have wars over this matter.
It's impossible to change her ways since she is over 70 years old.
However, it still leaves a scar.
It still leads to troubles.
It keeps me away from my mom.
I know what you mean.
I know what her son is going through.
I have experienced it my entire life.
Tell us everything that ails you.
To be honest,
my mom throwing away my belongings...
is only a part of the reason why I left home.
She always claims that she is right.
- It's impossible to talk to her. - She doesn't listen to me.
I work at a construction site.
- "Be careful not to get hurt." - You want words of encouragement.
It would be nice if she can say that to me.
She never says anything like it.
"You are toiling away fruitlessly."
- She doesn't like your job. - No.
"I will see if you can live well with that kind of a job."
She ruins your self-esteem.
Dong Hwa and I each had to give her...
1,000 dollars a month.
- Is it for her living expenses? - That's 2,000 dollars in total.
She told us that she will open an installment savings account.
Your mom offered to do that.
I no longer send her the money.
However, I sent her the money for about a year.
I don't know where that money went to.
I am sure she didn't throw it away.
- No way. - I have never seen it.
How much money did you save up for your son?
I saved 500 dollars a month for each of them.
- 500 dollars? - What about the rest?
The rest of the money became my allowance.
My daughter bought me a used car.
I am using the money to make monthly installment payment.
I bought the used car...
because I had promised to buy my mom a car...
ever since I was little.
She asked me to buy her a car since the one she had was old.
That's why I bought a used car with monthly installment plans.
You are so nice.
People say in their childhood, "Mom, I will make you rich."
"Mom, I will buy you a car when I grow up."
- She asked you to keep the promise. - Yes.
(It's ridiculous that a parent demanded it.)
It was a child's promise.
As I grew up, she continued to say,
"Dong Hwa, make sure you buy me Santa Fe."
- Your mom said that. - Yes.
She is unbelievable.
You shouldn't do that to your children.
- She is starting to look cool. - She is cool.
How much do you make in a month?
On average, I make about 1,700 dollars.
- Yet she takes 1,000 dollars. - Yes.
She takes more than half.
I believed her to open an installment savings account.
We shouldn't let this slide.
While your son no longer sends you money,
you saved 50 dollars a month for your son...
- when he did. - She should have 6,000 dollars.
I stopped when he stopped sending me money.
- You stopped. - You must have gotten the money...
- after you closed the account. - Where is 6,000 dollars?
- I closed the account. - You should give the money to him.
No, it's the price for raising him.
(No, it's the price for raising him.)
- That's ridiculous. - Had he continued to pay you,
you would have given him the accumulated money.
That's right. However, he canceled the deal.
- That's why you kept the money. - That's right.
You heard that you won't get your money back.
- Yes. - How are you feeling?
I am shocked.
I thought the money would be there.
It's the price for raising him. I won't give it back.
My daughter is still making payments.
Unless she stops, I will give her what I have when she gets married.
You took your son's money in vengeance.
- Yes. - That's the case with your son.
"How dare you defy me?" That's the case.
That's right.
Since you speak in a brusque manner,
you seem cold-hearted.
Let us ask you once more so that we don't misunderstand...
- your true intentions. - That's right.
You do have love for your son and daughter...
despite the manner you speak, right?
That's right. I love them.
These young man and woman...
make 1,700 and 2,000 dollars a month.
You do know that it is hard for them, right?
I do know that.
However, what's mine is mine.
What's my daughter’s is mine, too.
(What's my daughter’s is mine, too.)
Would you be happy if you live alone...
without your son or daughter?
Of course not.
Do you need your family?
Yes, I need my family.
In that case, you should protect them...
so that they can live well.
I need them to overuse my power on.
- They might leave. - Wait a minute.
- This is so frustrating. - Please tell us that...
you were trying to be funny,
- but missed the mark. - That's not the case.
Look at the son's facial expression.
You don't think that way 100 percent, right?
You are playing a character, right?
No, I am not playing a character.
I do feel that way. I am selfish...
and hard to deal with. It's true.
Your daughter is your biggest asset...
and the most precious treasure.
- Yes. - Why do you mistreat that treasure?
(Why do you mistreat that treasure?)
Well...
Your daughter is more precious than a car.
She is the one who bought you Santa Fe.
- Well... - I have a question...
- for you. - You have a point.
When your children listen to you obediently,
do you feel loved?
- Do you feel respected? - I do feel that way.
They might think differently.
(They might think differently.)
Did having a conversation with us...
change your opinion?
Do you still want to continue on with your ways?
I do feel like I should change,
but you can't make a crab walk straight.
People you meet in the society are bound to be selfish.
At home,
you need a parent who isn't selfish.
Only then can you be at ease...
because you have a mom who looks after you...
and keep items of the past even you forgot about.
That's what family is.
However, your children have a selfish mom at home.
They meet selfish people in the society...
and selfish mom at home.
It will make them wonder constantly.
- Where will they receive comfort? - There is not one place...
where they can cheer up and feel hope and love.
Throwing away their belongings isn't the worst problem.
The worst problem...
is that you throw away your children's heart.
Think about it in the opposite way.
How would you feel if you children go against you?
Let's say you grew old...
and lost the financial competence.
What will happen if they cut ties because you didn't listen to them?
- That's right. - It will be a disaster.
(You will regret throwing away their hearts.)
Say what you want to say to her.
Mom, please stop throwing away my belongings.
Please understand me.
I know you want to throw away my dolls...
and letters from my boyfriend in the army. Please don't do that.
The least you can do is wait until they break up.
The guests will tell us if they think it's a worry.
Why do you think it's a worry?
- It's something she shouldn't do. - It's something she shouldn't do.
Who else pressed the button?
- Aren't we pressing it now? - No.
- Jung Min. - I thought I had to press it now.
- It's okay. - We understand.
It must be frustrating that Dong Hwa can't reason with her.
I have seen mothers and daughters in a similar predicament.
These women miss their mothers,
but a meeting makes them feel bad.
- They receive emotional wounds. - That's right.
I am worried that it will happen with Dong Hwa and her mom.
Since she is young, she will be able to change.
It's the best for family members...
- to adjust to each other. - That's right.
I hope the show gives them a chance to start anew.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
All right.
- In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- All right. - Time's up.
Please say what you want to say to your son and daughter.
Thank you...
for growing up well under a selfish and strange mom.
From now on,
I will consult with you...
and talk to you...
before I throw anything away.
Talk to your son, too.
He lives away from home.
I love you, my son.
He smiled.
He smiled once.
- He smiled. - He smiled once.
This is hilarious.
- Tell us. - His face turned red.
- He looks like he will cry. - How old are you?
- He is 25 years old. - He is 25 years old.
- I am 25 years old. - How does it feel...
to see a twist after 25 years?
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Please say something to your mom.
You received a kiss.
- Start with "Mom". - Mom.
- Look at her. - Tell her what you want.
(He gathers his courage and faces her.)
(He turns his head because he feels awkward.)
We are not used to expressing feelings.
- That's right. - It needs to change.
- Give it a try. - "Mom."
(He gathers his courage and tries once more.)
Mom.
You promised...
that you will be more expressive.
I will be more expressive as well.
You know that I love you always, right?
Transfer the money to my account later.
Show us how many votes the worry received.
"The Poor Family".
I bet it received a lot of votes.
It's in the 100s.
The last two digits are 65.
(How many votes did the worry receive?)
- How many people are here? - 155 votes.
There are 200 people in total.
200 people?
(155 votes)
We have never had a worry like this one.
The title is, "Watch out for Her".
Hello.
Hello, Henry.
Hello.
I have a scary friend.
This is what my friend does.
365 days a year,
no matter where she is at,
inside her bag is...
(What's inside her bag?)
a gun.
(She always carries a gun.)
What?
(What? A gun?)
"I want to shoot it."
"I want to fire it."
"I can't hold it in any longer. I am going to fire it."
"Sir,"
"may I apply silicone to your bathroom?"
My friend...
is addicted to a sealant gun.
This is the first worry of its kind in seven years.
(No worry is the same.)
When she goes to a blind date, she goes,
"It's my hobby to apply silicone."
- She says that at a blind date. - "Does your house need silicone..."
"anywhere?"
She says that to a man she is meeting for the first time.
It sounds like a lie, right?
I will tell you more shocking stories on the show.
What should I do about my friend who is addicted to sealant guns?
(What should I do about my friend?)
I am sure no one among the audience or viewers...
has seen someone like this.
- This is the first. - Silicone!
Some people stand feeling stuffy.
If you button your shirt, they want to open one.
If you zip up your jacket,
they want to pull it down a little.
Some people can't stand the sight of pimples.
They have to pop them.
A lot of actresses are like that.
A stranger tried to pop my pimple in the elevator.
(I know someone like that.)
- Kye Sang... - Yoon Kye Sang?
has a problem. He once had a big pimple on his nose.
- It's painful. - A pimple in this location...
- takes a long time to ripen. - That's right.
- He ate... - Ripen!
pork belly on purpose.
- He wanted to ripen it. - That's right.
He touched it constantly from the moment he woke up.
In the evening, I heard a scream from the bathroom.
(Screaming)
I heard a scream.
"What is it?" I opened the door.
It must have been disastrous.
He had taken out an earring...
to pick on his pimple...
before popping it.
He ended up piercing his nose with it.
(A disaster occurred.)
- No way. - It really happened.
- No way. - Don't lie.
No way.
It really happened.
You are trying too hard to tell us something new.
I am not. Ask Kye Sang if he visits the show.
- That's incredible. - He pierced his nose.
He couldn't stand it.
Those kinds of obsession doesn't harm anyone.
This person applies silicone at other people's houses.
- It's damaging. - It is on a different level.
There must be more shocking stories.
Please come on out.
(Who is worried about a friend with a sealant gun?)
(Koo Min Sun)
Hello.
(Hello)
We have never had this kind of a worry.
Is your friend really addicted to sealant guns?
She is completely addicted to sealant guns...
you use on window frames, sinks,
and bathrooms.
- How did she get addicted? - That's fascinating.
How did she get addicted?
She always carries...
a sealant gun and different types of silicone.
She applies silicone whenever she has a chance.
When we go to a cafe,
she doesn't look at me...
during the conversation.
She stares at the corner.
- She wants to use a sealant gun. - That's right.
Before she leaves, she asks the owner...
to uses it on the cafe or the restroom.
Do the owners give her permission...
to use a sealant gun?
She politely asks, "May I apply silicone?"
When the owners become flustered,
she tells them, "Applying silicone..."
"will prevent molds..."
- "and leakage." - She persuades them.
She also adds that it's free.
"It's free."
"In that case, fire it!"
- "It's free." - Isn't it nice then?
She takes off the good parts with a knife...
- to apply silicone anew. - She is addicted.
Who would like that?
She works in interior design...
or construction, right?
No, my friend works at an art academy...
- as an instructor. - She is an art instructor.
Yes, her work is completely unrelated.
- Wouldn't she be good at it? - Why do you care?
- Why would it be your worry? - She doesn't ask you to join her.
Why would it be your worry?
I get a headache every time I meet her.
- Is it because of the smell? - Yes.
She promised me to apply silicone...
on the glass of my workroom.
She completely failed.
(She completely failed.)
After applying silicone, she said...
that it wasn't the type of work she usually does,
so she wouldn't fix it.
- "It's not my style." - Exactly.
- "You take care of it." - She's scary.
- She's peculiar. - It wasn't her style?
- That's right. - Did she really say that?
So I built a glass wall over again.
Let's meet her friend now.
- Okay. - Let's hear why she does that.
- This will be fun. - Gosh.
The silicone addict, where are you?
(Who is the silicone addict?)
Why do you like applying silicone so much?
- It brings me peace. - Peace?
- It makes me... - It makes you calm?
Yes, it makes me feel relaxed.
I don't understand. Why do you think it makes you calm?
I remodeled my house three years ago.
- Your house? - Yes.
- She saw how it's done. - The expert left a sealant gun.
What a fate.
It was my fate.
I was curious, so I gave it a try.
It felt like I was meant to do it.
(It's a whole new thing.)
That's how I felt.
What made you feel that way?
I like the way I feel when I do it and the smell.
I started to practice doing it watching videos online.
So I'm pretty good at applying sealant neatly now.
- You must feel accomplished. - I've mastered doing it.
- That's interesting. - Indeed.
Do you really carry a sealant gun...
- Yes, I do. - and sealant in your bag?
- Yes, I have them right now. - She brought them here.
Her bag looks like a bank robber's.
- Exactly. - A bank robber's bag.
Do you carry them around every time you go out?
They're quite heavy, so I usually carry them...
- in a backpack. - I see.
I carry at least one pack of silicone sealant,
or between 3 and 4 packs with me for 1 day.
I can't stand it when I see any gaps.
How many do you have?
- The sealant guns? - Yes.
I have three sealant guns in total.
- She speaks like an expert. - Exactly.
She has three sealant guns.
- That's right. - She has three types.
Let's say you want to do it,
but you can't because someone stops you or for other reasons.
How would you feel?
I would feel depressed the rest of the day.
I'd feel anxious, and I wouldn't be able to focus on my work.
(I just want to apply silicone sealant!)
- You're your friend's worry. - Yes.
- What do you think? - I don't see why.
I think I am rather helpful for her.
- You ruined her workplace. - That's right.
It hurts my pride.
The contractor who worked before me...
didn't do a good job leaving adhesive on the glass.
- The one who built the glass wall? - I did my best...
to remove the adhesive and apply the sealant neatly.
However, it didn't go well.
- She just went home drunk. - You can say...
- She went home drunk? - Yes.
- Were you drunk? - I applied...
I have more desire when I'm drunk.
- Did you apply it after drinking? - Yes, I did.
- That's why it was uneven. - Exactly.
She did it when she was drunk.
(It's the harmful consequences of working drunk.)
When do you feel the urge even more?
As I just told you, I feel the urge when I'm drunk.
- That's unusual. - I drink alone at home often.
I repeated removing clean sealant and applying new,
so my mom scolded me because of the smell.
We had a fight almost every day for a year.
Recently, she made a rule that I shouldn't do it at home.
Not long ago, I broke the rule.
I was upset and had a few drinks.
I applied sealant where I didn't have to do it.
I texted my mom before I go to sleep.
"Mom, something that happened to me today made me upset,"
"so I applied sealant before I sleep."
(Mom, I'm sorry I applied sealant.)
- "I am very sorry." - Her mom must've been dumbfounded.
"I love you, Mom." Then, I went to sleep.
(She is really peculiar.)
When you arrived at this TV station,
did you see any places you want to apply sealant?
I had a tour around the TV station.
- I found a lot of places. - There are many places to do it.
- Right. - Where?
Please come out...
- and show us. - I'm curious about her bag.
- She looks like a contractor. - She looks like a sniper.
- Exactly. - It looks like a sniper bag.
(What's in her bag?)
Please come this way.
Who would expect there's a sealant gun in her bag?
This is driving me crazy.
- You put the sealant at the back? - Look at the color.
- Henry, go take a look. - This is a basic model...
- You can easily find at a store? - that you can buy at a store.
This color suits you, Henry.
(The color suits Henry.)
That one is a basic model.
This one is...
When my friend traveled to France...
- Your friend bought this for you? - Yes.
- Is it made in France? - Yes.
I asked my friend to buy this.
It's a gun.
(Henry pretends to shoot her.)
(She pretends she got shot.)
She's peculiar.
She's so peculiar.
She's like Henry.
The last one is like my other self.
- Is this your favorite? - It's black color.
It looks great.
I carry this around with me all the time. I call it Black.
- You call it Black? - Yes.
What do you call this one?
- Pardon? - Do you call it Green?
No, that's Bonjour.
- Bonjour? - Bonjour?
(It's an unexpected nickname.)
- She's weird. - She calls this Bonjour?
It's from France.
Please show us how to use this.
- Okay. I'll show you. - Please show us.
- Let's just... - It'll be fun.
take the whole bag out.
My gosh.
(The silicone sealant came out.)
She carries silicone sealant like this.
- Usually... - Work gloves.
I don't usually wear work gloves.
- Today... - Do you do it with bare hands?
Yes, I do.
What's next? Please show us how to put it in the gun.
- Okay. - Will you use Black?
- It feels so uncomfortable. - Or Bonjour?
- Or Bonjour? - You should do it your way.
- Are you going to use Bonjour? - Which one will you use?
- Bonjour? - Bonjour is not compatible.
- It's for display purposes only. - I see.
- You can't use it. - Bonjour is for display purposes.
- That's funny. - I'll use Black.
- Okay. - This is hilarious.
You pull it.
- She's so peculiar. - Then, you put it in.
She's not peculiar at all.
I think it's coming out.
(She looks serious.)
It's coming out.
- Are you ready to use it now? - Yes, I am.
We prepared some tiles for you.
- Our staff members will bring it. - Please bring the tiles.
So you can apply the sealant here.
We've never prepared any props like these before...
- for our guest. - Hello is...
- It's so much fun. - Exactly.
She goes straight to the tiles.
It's thick.
(She applies the sealant skillfully.)
- She's really good. - She's good.
- It's thick. - Nice.
(She applies it evenly and neatly.)
- It looks so neat. - She's really good.
(She finishes perfectly.)
(Everyone is impressed.)
- I can't believe this! - My goodness.
(The direction is no problem for her.)
(She's filling the gap perfectly.)
(She failed to finish it nicely?)
- What are you going to do? - The last touch.
(This is easy.)
- Oh, my. - Show me one more time.
- What are you going to do? - The last touch.
(She shows her elegant movement from her three years of experience.)
(Is this the master level?)
(Please show me one more time.)
Do it one more time.
(That was cool.)
- It's a difficult thing to do. - How do you feel?
I'm so happy right now.
(I'm so happy right now.)
She's really good.
My goodness.
(The sealant sticks out.)
What are you going to do?
- How did that happen? - Why?
(She carries a utility knife with her all the time.)
It's a utility knife.
(Only the experienced people know how to do this.)
- What is she doing? - She's cutting it out.
- She's finishing off. - My goodness.
- I'm trying to get a nice finish. - However,
it doesn't seem so difficult.
- I think anyone can do that. - Let me try it.
- I'll give it a try. - Let Henry try it.
- Henry, give it a try. - I think anyone can do that.
I won't do it like her.
I'll show you.
I'm applying the sealant once.
(It's uneven.)
- Then, I will... - It's uneven.
use my finger...
- to apply it evenly. - He can't adjust the amount.
He can't maintain the same amount while applying it.
You need to control your strength while applying it, right?
Yes, you need a skill.
- I've never done this before. - You should apply it evenly.
- Really? - I'll give it a try.
- It's difficult. - It's not easy.
It's very difficult.
(There's a gap.)
He left a gap.
(It's harder than it seems.)
- There's a gap. - You left a gap.
You need to be meticulous.
It's not easy to apply it evenly.
(Up: Tae Gyun, down: the guest)
(Tae Joon keeps staring at the board.)
- Can I try it too? - Our youngest member will try it.
- Can I try it? - He really wants to try it.
(How well will Tae Joon do it?)
It feels good when it comes out.
(He completely failed to apply the sealant evenly.)
- He can't do it. - He can't do it.
- It's hard. - It really is difficult.
(Chan Woo applies sealant carefully.)
- Wipe it with a tissue right away. - It's not solid.
- He can't do it. - It's not easy at all.
- It's not easy. - This is so fun!
I don't think I can do it.
Come here.
It feels really great.
- It's fun. - It's too thick.
- Try applying it here. - Everyone failed.
(Dong Yeob stands up.)
(I want to try it too.)
Let's see what does she like so much about this?
Put it on the gap and start squeezing.
Jung Min, why don't you...
- try it? - That's too thick.
- Shall I give it a try too? - It's hard to control the strength.
It's difficult.
- This part... - He's the best among us though.
Look at this.
It looks completely different.
- Let Jung Min try it. - There's a gap here.
- Everyone wants to try it. - Why did you get fascinated?
(Everyone is waiting in line!)
Isn't it fun?
(He's concentrating ignoring her.)
He did a good job.
- He did well this time. - Awesome.
He did well this time.
(Well done.)
Let's apply sealant, everyone!
(She is the only one who's worried.)
(This isn't what I'm here for.)
- Other than the tiles we prepared, - It's so much fun.
- how about somewhere in the studio? - That's a good idea.
- Anywhere you want. - Can I fill the gap here?
- Apply it along that straight line. - Apply it.
Longer than that. Good.
(She's doing it with one hand!)
- She's doing it with one hand. - Goodness!
She's applying it so neatly.
(She's doing it accurately even when using one hand.)
That looks so nice.
She's so good.
She's using only one hand.
(She's unbelievably skillful.)
Watching it makes me feel good.
(She demonstrated her skill perfectly.)
How much is one pack?
You can buy it at any hardware store...
for between 2 and 3 dollars.
- I buy it in bulk online. - I see.
- My goodness. - How much do you use in a month?
I use about 40 packs a month.
- Oh, my. - How many packs?
- 40 packs? - 40 packs.
She uses a little more than 1 pack in 1 day.
- Give her a round of applause. - Thank you.
I don't think it's a worry.
I'm worried even more...
because she became happier on this show.
I'm worried,
but her other friends are here...
because she caused them more damage than she did me.
I went to Japan with her last year.
After checking in our luggage, I went to exchange currency.
Her name was called repeatedly.
When we went there, her suitcase was opened,
and I saw it was filled with sealant guns and sealant.
The staff member said they were not allowed in the plane,
so she should take care of them.
Why would she bring them to Japan?
She was depressed during the whole trip.
The trip was supposed to be joyful,
but she ruined it.
Let's hear from the next person.
- I have children. They're six... - I see.
and two years old. It was when my oldest child started crawling.
- Okay. - She was drunk that day.
She must've wanted to do it so much.
She said she has urges when drunk.
She applied sealant on the floor in my house.
- Oh, no. - My baby got curious,
and touched it.
- It hasn't dried up yet? - That's right.
- If my baby put it in the mouth, - Exactly.
there could've been a serious problem.
I was really angry...
- But... - She doesn't do that anymore?
She came to my house...
I once got angry at her so much.
I'm usually a very nice person.
- Okay. - I don't usually get angry.
Really? I didn't know.
- I'm glad you said that. - Is that so?
- Yes. - I don't usually get angry.
It could affect my baby's health,
- so I got really angry. - I understand.
That's not acceptable.
- You should always get permission. - She's a nuisance.
I attended a wedding with her.
- A wedding? - Yes.
She went to the bathroom all of a sudden,
and applied sealant in there.
- Without asking for permission? - In the bathroom at a wedding?
- Yes, at a wedding. - Without asking for a permission?
- I see. - Yes, she did it as she wanted.
- She can't control herself. - She became bold.
One day, we were waiting for our bus at the bus terminal.
She told me to get on the bus and go first.
- She told you to go first? - Yes. So I asked why.
She said she was going to apply it on the glass wall of the store.
She would rather miss her bus?
She let me go first.
- My goodness. She's peculiar. - Did you feel good?
Did you ask the store owner for permission?
No, I didn't. I applied it while passing by.
You can't just apply sealant other's store wall like that.
- Exactly. - Why did you have to do that?
Why did you want to do that?
I saw a gap.
The sealant blocks dirt and water.
- That's not your concern. - You can't do it in a public place.
- Exactly. - You don't think it's a problem...
to apply sealant at a public place.
We looked into it.
If you damage others' property without permission,
you can be arrested for criminal damage.
(You can be arrested for criminal damage.)
You may be requested for compensation for the damage.
It's the law.
I really didn't know that.
You may get punishment.
If I caused any damage, please let me know.
I'll go fix it.
That's an excuse. You just want to do it again.
You're right.
(Please contact me.)
(What should I do about you?)
There are more of her acquaintances.
Let's talk with them.
Hello. I'm her student at the art institute.
It must be hard to understand what your tutor does.
It's not surprising anymore.
She even dances while holding a sealant gun.
- Sorry? - What?
- She dances? - Yes.
- How does she dance? - She dances while applying it?
No. She dances holding a sealant gun.
- She just dances. - Is that her signature dance?
The sealant gun dance.
- I want to see it. - Can you show us your dance?
What song would you like to dance to?
Can I dance on the stage?
(You'll regret this.)
- Please stand in the center. - Okay.
She's loading it.
- Just do it as you do usually. - My goodness.
- Okay. - Music please.
Let's watch her sealant gun dance.
(She starts in a sitting position.)
Let's watch her sealant gun dance.
Did she make this dance?
Yes, I made this dance.
- Music please. - Look at her face.
(She's trying to look cool, but it's embarrassing.)
- She has swag! - She has swag.
This is so funny.
(Shall I begin?)
(Powerful and dazzling)
(Her cheerful energy overwhelms everyone.)
(Who on earth is she?)
She's unbelievable.
(She's a dancing machine.)
(She became one with the sealant gun.)
She's good.
(How much have you guys used a sealant gun?)
(That's so embarrassing.)
She's good.
(She is an art tutor.)
(She bows to the audience.)
(She's full of charms!)
This isn't a worry. It's funny.
She's funny, cool, and nice.
- This isn't a worry. - She's a good dancer.
Where does she usually dance like that?
She dances anywhere she wants.
- On the street? - What if it's crowded?
- She doesn't care. - I see.
That must be embarrassing.
- It's funny at first time only. - Exactly.
You won't laugh next time.
It must be painful to see her dance like that every single day.
You get tired of it.
Do you have anything else to say to your friend?
She applies it at a public place.
I don't want to be handcuffed for what she's done.
Handcuffed?
I hope she'll let go of her obsession.
It wouldn't be a problem if you enjoy your hobby,
- but you caused others damage, - She wants to enjoy with others.
you're always distracted while thinking of your hobby,
- and you make others worry. - Exactly.
- Why don't you change your job? - It could be useful for others.
- Quit your job as an art tutor. - Make it as your profession.
Get a job where you can use your skills.
You can use your skills in an artistic way.
I'm thinking of using my skills for creating artworks.
- That's a good idea. - Exactly.
- The silicone sealant art. - That would be nice.
Henry, you go first.
Do you think it's a worry?
I think she can just refrain herself a little.
If she uses her skills to help others,
she can enjoy it as a hobby.
I don't think she makes people around her worry.
- She has a good personality. - Indeed. She's charming.
She's a good dancer too.
Please press the button!
(What does the audience think?)
- In 5, 4, 3, - In 5, 4, 3,
- and 2, 1. Time's up. - I don't think she'll win.
Many of your acquaintances are here. Why don't you say something to them?
I'm sorry for causing you guys trouble to fulfill my desire.
As I listened to everyone,
I realized that I should refrain myself.
- Don't do it at a public place. - Okay.
Please show us the result of "Watch out for Her".
It's a three-digit number.
- I think it's 46. - I think it's 0.
It must be 46.
Stop!
- It's 56. - Right.
She got 56 votes.
Thank you for coming on the show.
She's losing her motivation for life.
So she asked for our help.
Hello. I'm a woman in her 20s who is depressed every day.
I'm writing this letter because I think this is...
my last chance.
Please save my dad.
What's wrong with her dad?
My dad always says,
"Life is meaningless."
"I don't have long to live."
He always says negative things like this.
- That makes other people suffer. - He always complains.
When he watches TV, he says,
"Gosh, that jerk."
"That crazy scum!"
Even when we dined out after a long time, he said,
"I've wasted my money!"
"Do you want me to pay for food like this?"
"I wouldn't eat it even if you pay me."
My goodness.
I don't know why he always thinks negatively.
I said, "What is wrong with you?"
"You're making me depressed too."
He said, "You guys feel depressed because of me."
"There's no point in me being alive."
- That's the worst. - "I shouldn't live any longer."
- He shouldn't say such a thing. - Then, my mom said,
"Honey, why do you keep saying such things like that?"
My dad said, "You must be distressed because of me."
"I'll give you a divorce. Let's end our relationship."
Gosh.
I don't know why he becomes extremely negative.
- I'm really upset. - What's his problem?
What can I do to help my negative dad?
- Please help me. - My goodness.
(I really want to be happy now.)
Let's meet the daughter of the man who thinks negatively.
Please come out.
(Who is the daughter of the man who thinks negatively?)
(Lee Young Sun)
Be careful.
Is he that negative?
Yes, he is. When we watch...
a variety show,
he says that we're wasting our time.
- I see. - When my mom watches a drama...
"Every drama is the same! Why would you watch it?"
That's what he would say.
When he watches news, he swears a lot...
and gets very angry.
- He doesn't say anything good. - He doesn't show his feelings.
He complains about everything he sees.
How old is he?
He's 68 years old.
My parents got married at a late age.
They had me when they were quite old, and I'm their only child.
- People think... - She's a precious daughter.
that I was loved by my dad as I grew up.
- They must. - Everyone says that.
However, all I hear from him is negative.
He criticizes me more than he advises or encourages me.
It makes me sad.
One day, he was parking his car at a supermarket.
The car next to him was parked too closely to his car.
My dad started swearing...
so loudly in the parking lot.
He swore loudly?
Yes, he did. He couldn't control his anger.
He even spat on the window of the car.
- On the car next to him? - I got scared.
He spat...
- on someone else's car window? - Yes.
Right at that moment, the car owner showed up.
Did they have a fight?
Many harsh words were exchanged.
I was afraid, so I stood in the distance.
- Upon seeing that... - I guess he holds a lot of anger.
- Usually... - He can't suppress his anger.
He can't suppress his anger when he loses his temper.
He's always pessimistic,
and he doesn't like TV shows, but he came to be...
- on the show today. - That's right.
- That's right. - It's...
It's interesting...
because he usually thinks little of variety shows,
but he laughs out loud when he watches Hello.
Aren't you saying that because you're here with us?
- No, no... - There are many upsetting...
- stories here, yet he laughs? - "That family is unhappy too!"
(That family is unhappy too!)
Is this what happens?
(This is what he must be thinking.)
- That's true. - I guess it's true.
I really think that's what it is.
Young Sun, why do you think your dad likes...
- Hello? - At what point does he laugh?
I guess the ones I don't understand get along with each other.
"I'm not the only strange person!"
(What did you say?)
- Anyway, he enjoys watching Hello, - What a relief that he likes Hello.
so I am grateful to him.
- We'll say hello. Hello. - Exactly.
- Hello, sir. - Hello.
(Who's her dad that's always pessimistic?)
Hello.
Do you like our program?
Some people are really ridiculous.
"I'll do it my way because it's my house."
Sir, the one behind you is that person.
- She's right behind you. - It's her.
It's absurd.
- I see. - It's others' stories,
- but it's funny. - Exactly.
"How is that even possible?"
"It's absurd." You've enjoyed watching the show so far,
and now you're sitting at that spot. How do you feel?
I think she exaggerated the story.
- Your daughter did? - Yes.
- I see. - Everyone who sits there says that.
(Everyone who sits there says that!)
(That's not what I meant.)
Do you admit that you're pessimistic?
Yes, that's true.
(He admits it right away!)
- Everyone admits it easily. - That's right.
(He admits very easily.)
Why are you so blunt when you watch TV?
On dramas, rich people...
- talk about love and all. - It's because of the content.
- The stories make no sense at all. - Sir,
- so you watch TV. - I keep...
(So you do watch TV.)
You know the whole story.
- You mean the dramatic stories. - I tell her not to watch it...
since it's useless.
Why did you scream and swear at the parking lot?
- You even spat. - Normally,
- people don't spit. - That's right.
That guy parked really close just for his convenience.
It was frustrating.
Spitting your saliva was too much.
- Yes, that's... - I spat on the hood out of anger.
The owner of the car came just in time.
"Why did you spit?" We ended up swearing and fighting...
- with each other. - I get why you were upset...
What do you do for living? You should be able...
to suppress your anger when you're working.
That's right. That would be tough.
After graduating from the elementary school, I learned carpentry.
- Carpentry. - That's right.
I've been working as a carpenter since then.
I get paid after a day of work.
Since the ceilings are high, I need to work on a ladder.
I guess I got prostatitis from working on a high place.
I couldn't work for a month due to the treatment.
I rested another month while treating my cataract.
Anyway, you go out to work...
- after getting a call. - Yes.
You're now 68 years old.
You're quite old for the job.
Many thoughts must come across your mind.
I could certainly take some rest if I had saved a lot of money,
but that's not the case. I keep becoming ill.
I feel disappointed with myself,
so there's trouble in my family too.
You're not saying those pessimistic stuff due to your health though.
- That's recent. You did it before. - That's right.
I got such bad things from my father.
- You're influenced by him. - Yes.
He was nicer to others than to his family.
He treated his kids worse than others.
(It seems she has something to say.)
- You say that there's no point... - That's right.
of living in front of Young Sun.
In the past, I had my fortune told...
- at a tea room. - I see.
- The fortune of the day. - Yes, I had my fortune told.
They said I'd live until I'm 78 years old.
I keep saying those because I believe that.
You tell your daughter that there's no reason to live.
- Why do you keep saying those? - Why do you keep saying those?
Does Young Sun upset you?
I kept growing apart from my wife and my daughter.
- We have a pet at home. - I see.
- It's an animal, - You became attached.
I became way too attached to it.
- You became attached to it. - I have pity on it.
We raise a poodle named "Choco".
- It's... - Choco?
- Yes, Choco. - I see.
- It's 13 years old. - It's old.
Puppies live for about 15 years,
so when my dad sees Choco,
he says, "You won't live for long."
- "I think I will follow you soon." - "I'll die."
Why would you say the most upsetting things like that?
I thought that he must be lonely.
I try to approach him as a nice daughter.
However, his answers are pessimistic when I ask him.
He only expresses his irritation,
so I become more daunted.
Her dad is sitting in front of her,
- but they never make eye contact. - That's right.
- Young Sun keeps looking down. - They don't make eye contact.
Are you avoiding eye contact with your dad? He's in front of you.
I rarely made eye contact with him.
- He never complimented you. - He's never praised you.
It's rare for an only daughter.
Even on a happy occasion,
he never praises me for doing a good job.
You only remember your dad losing his temper since you were younger.
That's right.
What's absurd is...
that he smiles a lot...
when he talks with his friends...
or even with an agent on the phone.
His tone is completely different from when he speaks with me.
I often hear his voice totally different.
It makes me be upset with my dad.
Why would he laugh while talking with an operator?
Sir, you said that you were upset...
about your father being nice to others, but you're doing...
- the same thing. - You're nice to others only.
I always think about treating my family nicely,
- but it's tough. - Is it hard to express it?
(I'm so unhappy.)
When Young Sun went through puberty,
- did she upset or disappoint you? - Did she surprise you in a bad way?
I don't drink alcohol, smoke cigarettes, or curse at others...
because of my dad.
- Your dad's influence... - Did your dad ever shock you...
when you grew up?
He was having a hard time unbuckling his belt...
because he was drunk.
I helped him, and it was easy to unbuckle it.
He became upset with that.
Why?
He cut his belt into pieces...
(He yelled and cut his belt into pieces.)
in front of me.
I couldn't say anything. I was shocked in fear.
Being drunk, he was struggling to unbuckle his belt.
Since his daughter unbuckled it at ease,
- he became angry. - It was unbuckled.
Why did you do that?
My nephew gave me 500 dollars...
to get myself a new suit. I paid 50 dollars for that belt.
An expensive belt should be easy to buckle and unbuckle,
but it was worse than a cheap one.
That's why I did it before I realized.
Are you upset with your daughter?
Not really.
My daughter majored in Piano.
There's this girl who practiced the piano at a church...
because she didn't have one at home.
She was offered a full scholarship at Juilliard School.
How amazing is she?
I don't even wish that from her.
Not everyone can do that.
However, she should put one third of that effort...
because that's her major.
She keeps taking a break after practicing only a little.
She doesn't even touch her piano anymore.
Was that what you were upset with...
because you struggled to afford the piano?
- I was upset. I want to get rid... - Back then.
of the piano because we sleep together in a small room now,
but she says she wants to keep it.
Let's meet her mother.
- Hello. - Hello.
(Let's talk with her mother.)
You must feel your daughter's worry more than anyone else.
Yes, I do.
Recently, he keeps saying that he will die at the age of 70.
He says he may die from showering after drinking alcohol,
that he'll die from a fall.
Recently,
he says that he may die after Choco dies.
How would my daughter feel?
She once said this.
"I guess my dad doesn't want to see me get married."
"He must talk about dying often because he hates me so much."
When we're eating,
in order to give delicious food for my only daughter,
- That's right. - I'd feed a side dish to her.
- I need to see if he's angry. - Why?
"If she were a son, I would've trampled him to death."
(If she were a son, I would've trampled him to death.)
(Did we hear it right?)
"We couldn't eat well because of poverty in the past."
As a mom, it breaks my heart...
to hear those things.
She often ended up not eating and crying.
My daughter has suffered so much...
while growing up.
We sent our worry and came here...
despite of my shy personality since we wanted us to be harmonious.
- You did the right thing. - You made a good decision.
(You did the right thing!)
Your husband is usually kind to others.
He's polite,
but his behavior for his family changes once he drinks alcohol.
Ma'am, please tell us.
When he comes home after drinking, I tell him...
that he's like Hulk.
His look changes completely from how he normally is at home.
- His look is so frightening, - It's because of alcohol.
so I can't be nice to him.
When I express my frustration, he starts swearing.
He tries to smash everything.
He's so scary.
When I tell him about it the next day, he says he has no idea.
Sir, can't you remember anything after you drink alcohol?
No.
He's so frightening.
Seriously, he looks completely different from how he usually is.
- You would tremble. - My daughter would cry in her room.
(I understand how you feel.)
What was the most shocking memory of your dad...
being drunk when you were younger?
I don't remember what it was, but he suddenly...
smacked the television with his fist.
He couldn't work for a while because of the fracture.
One day, he threw the bottle of liquor he was drinking at the TV.
(He threw the bottle of liquor he was drinking at the TV!)
My mom cleaned the mess.
I remember those things very clearly.
How do you feel to hear the story in front of many people here?
They claim that I said some stuff after drinking,
but I can't remember it.
I told my wife...
that if she complains once again,
I'll end the relationship with her.
There's no reason to endure once again.
"Let's end this." That's what I said.
- My gosh. - Sir, do you really mean that...
- or are you just saying that? - Well,
I'm letting her go...
because I'm inadequate.
That's why...
I'll let her go.
- Everyone is... - It's a total chaos.
Are you aware that you vent your anger on your family upon drinking?
- He is aware of it. - You do it on purpose, right?
However, I wish she told me this way instead.
"Think of your health because you're old."
"Drink less..."
"so you won't cause this trouble to your family."
"Please put some effort."
- If she said it like this... - It would've been nice.
That never happened.
She was always harsh.
- She only complains. - That's why you were more upset.
While you're at it, tell me what you you were upset about with your wife.
Does your wife remember your birthdays?
Since I grew up with eating three meals a day,
I just need to eat rice. There's no special treat for my birthday.
I don't even wish to have that.
Then one day...
she gave me cold rice.
- I see. - I was upset.
- How upsetting. - I called my daughter...
and said that I was upset to have cold rice on my birthday.
My daughter followed me and suggested to eat out,
but I didn't feel like eating out.
Exactly. You were already upset.
I forgot about it afterwards.
I think it's relative.
After living together for long, you could forget about it once.
However, it seems you've been keeping it in your mind.
Well, it's upsetting to have cold rice on your birthday.
- It is upsetting. - That's what I'm saying.
With warm rice, I wouldn't have been upset.
Eating cold rice made me really sad.
Ma'am, was his birthday...
like any other day to you,
or did you forget about it?
I had no idea.
I guess I served cold rice that day since we had a lot of it.
- You forgot about it that day only. - Exactly.
I forgot about it, so I had no idea.
Why would I serve cold rice if I had known about his birthday?
- You forgot it for the first time? - Yes.
- I think I forgot it several times. - Still...
Ma'am, he deserves to be upset.
Sir, do you remember your wife's birthday well?
I'd suggest to eat out, but she refuses.
That's why I give her 200 dollars on her birthdays.
- You never forget her birthday? - My gosh,
- you're cool. - I just give her 200 dollars.
Ma'am, did your husband never forget your birthday?
- Me? - No, I'm asking your wife.
- He did forget it. - He forgot it, right?
- Yes. - I forgot it many times.
(He confesses the truth.)
It's a tie now, 1 to 1.
- They're sullen at each other. - That's right.
(Sullen)
You mentioned the things you are upset about with your daughter.
If she says, "I'm of no help to my dad,"
"I don't think I can live long,"
and "I don't want to live,"
how would you feel?
I'd be stupefied. She shouldn't do that.
She might say,
"Dad, death keeps no calendar."
Nice, nice.
"You hate me this much, so I might die first."
"My life could be taken away before yours."
She might keep on saying these things.
How would you feel?
It would break my heart.
- You're doing that to her though. - That's what you're doing to her.
Life is too short even to say good things only.
- He's realized. - Seriously,
your daughter is letting you off the hook for you.
She lets you sleep for long enough.
Would you appreciate those comments?
They break her heart completely.
You're now hurting your wife and your daughter...
constantly without stopping.
If you're a carpenter, do the carpentering outside.
Why would you hurt them deeply at home?
You shouldn't break your family's hearts.
Let's think the other way around.
- When was Young Sun most adorable? - That's right.
When we left the hospital after my wife delivered her,
I was delighted that I now have a daughter.
Words were not enough to express my joy.
- She was... - Was she pretty?
- Yes. - You would've adored her.
- My dad... - He says he adored you before.
I don't even remember it.
(Will my dad change?)
Young Sun, say your sincere wish for your dad.
What I want from you...
is not something big or difficult.
When we have a normal conversation,
please be positive.
When you drink alcohol,
please do not relieve your stress by venting on us.
- I'll put effort to express... - That's right.
- my gratitude and to be good. - Expression is crucial.
- All right. - Sir,
I want you to have confidence first.
- You're not inadequate. - Of course not.
Choose the positive side now.
Think about your strength.
I wasn't able to marry someone, but I'm confident that I will.
I can seduce every man in the world.
(It's a bad example.)
It's me. I have potentials.
- All right. I'll cut her off. - I'm sorry.
I'm sorry. My apologies.
Lastly, say a few words to your family.
I enjoy carp fishing.
I suggest my wife to go fishing together.
There are houses built on water these days.
- The facilities are nice nowadays. - That's right.
I suggest to go there for an overnight trip,
but she refuses because of the fishy odor.
It's like my wish,
but her response is always negative.
Ma'am, why don't you want to go there?
First of all, I hate the smell of the water.
- It's uncomfortable to sleep there, - It's uncomfortable.
so I hate it.
Your husband loves it though. You could accompany him once.
That's right. You should go once.
- I see. - You could go somewhere even worse.
If he promises me...
that he will never drink...
more than two bottles of liquor.
- Ma'am, you're so cool. - How many bottles do you drink?
- Sir, just two bottles. - Two bottles is not bad.
- Two bottles is not bad at all. - How many bottles do you drink?
Sir, are you okay with that?
Okay.
- Okay. - Okay!
- Okay! - You should keep the promise.
(Please keep your promise.)
Let's start voting from Jung MIn.
In fact, my father was very pessimistic when I was young.
- He was more pessimistic than him. - Really?
My mom got remarried...
to a very nice husband.
More than my dad being pessimistic,
I couldn't bear seeing my mom...
- being sorry to me. - It would've bothered her so much.
When your wife spoke earlier,
she kept tearing up.
If you care about them a bit more and put effort,
you will become much happier.
She's right.
She's talking about the three of you,
- not a new family. - That's not what I meant.
I meant the three of you.
- I'll root for her. - I see.
You need to share these things.
Everything will be fine.
- I mean it. I believe so. - It's convincing.
I cheer for you. Everything will be fine, really.
Press the button if you empathize with her worry.
(What does the audience think?)
- In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Stop! - Time's up.
I wonder how many votes her story got. Show us the result.
(The result)
The last digit is two.
- She needs 162 votes to win. - 162 votes.
(Her story will win with 162 votes!)
- Oh, dear. - Will it be the winner?
It's actually not easy to win.
That's right.
- It got 142 votes. - 142 votes.
(Her story got 142 votes.)
"The Poor Family" is the winner of the week.
We will give the winner a 1,000-dollar gift certificate.
Until the day we are all worry-free...
Hello will continue to counsel you.
Thank you!
("Following" by Kim Tae Woo)